Why some men develop pregnancy-like symptoms when their partner are expecting
It may sound surprising, but some men actually experience pregnancy-like symptoms when their partners are expecting, a condition medically known as Couvade Syndrome, or sympathetic pregnancy.
According to Dr Lillian Wangui Mwangi, this phenomenon is more common than many people realise and is often linked to emotional and psychological connections between partners
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She explained that the condition occurs as a result of empathy, where a partner becomes so emotionally attuned that they begin to experience their partner’s feelings.
“Pregnancy symptoms in men, couvade syndrome or sympathetic pregnancy, that is what we call this condition,” Lillian explained.
“This happens due to an empathetic response where you understand, and you are able to feel the feelings of your partner.”
Additionally, the Consultant Obstetrician and Gynaecologist noted that the condition is especially common among couples expecting their first child.
“Very common when we are expecting the firstborn,” she added.
The pregnancy-like symptoms
She went on and said that during this time, emotional bonding, anxiety, and heightened awareness can trigger physical responses in the male partner.
In addition, Lillian pointed out that in some cases, men may begin to experience symptoms similar to those of their pregnant partners.
“So the partner of the pregnant lady will have similar symptoms; they can suffer nausea, vomiting, bloatedness, weight gain, toothache, leg cramps, and all those common pregnancy symptoms,” she pointed out.
Beyond the physical effects, the condition can also take a psychological toll. She highlights that some men may experience anxiety or even depression during this period, further emphasising the mind-body connection at play.
“Additionally, they could also suffer psychological symptoms like anxiety and depression,” Lillian added.
Despite how unusual it may seem, she emphasises that the condition is manageable and should not be ignored, adding that seeking help can make a significant difference in easing the symptoms.
“So if you are going through this, speak up; these symptoms can be managed. There are bothersome ones like nausea; we will put you on anti-nausea. If you are in pain, we will manage the pain and psychological challenges,” she added.
“We put you through psychotherapy and support groups; the idea is to know you are not alone and there is help.”
