Mwalimu Rachel explains why she does not have male friends
Radio presenter and media personality Mwalimu Rachel has candidly explained why she avoids having male friends, a subject that continues to stir debate in discussions around platonic relationships.
Speaking during a recent radio show alongside DJ Xclusive on Friday, August 29, 2025, the presenter was asked whether she keeps male friends and gave an unapologetic “no” as her response.
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Her explanation centred around the challenges of maintaining a strictly platonic dynamic between men and women, especially outside of blood relations. According to Mwalimu Rachel, boundaries can easily become blurred, which is why she deliberately avoids such friendships.
“Number one, you are a male species; you are not even related to me by blood. So anything can happen that would make us get into an awkward situation,” she stated.
It is the man who is going to spoil it
Pressed further on why she feels strongly about avoiding male friendships, Mwalimu Rachel noted that it is often the man who ends up crossing the line and spoiling the bond. She emphasised that what may start as a casual hangout or a friendly connection could escalate into something unintended, creating unnecessary tension or awkwardness.
“Eti oh, you are my best friend, we can hang out. But when something else happens, suddenly we are in an awkward situation. That is why we don’t spend as much time as people think we do. We keep it strictly professional,” she explained, directing her remarks at DJ Xclusive.
Rachel further stressed that she prefers keeping her interactions with male colleagues strictly professional to avoid misunderstandings or emotional entanglements. For her, the risks of blurred boundaries outweigh the benefits of having male friendships.
Her remarks add to the ongoing debate about whether men and women can truly maintain purely platonic friendships without complications. While some argue that such relationships can work if both parties respect boundaries, others, like Mwalimu Rachel, believe the likelihood of one side catching feelings or making advances is too high.
By drawing her line firmly, Mwalimu Rachel makes it clear that she values clarity and professionalism above potential friendship drama.
