Nica Njenga shares dating tips on how women can attract rich partners

Socialite Nica Njenga has shared advice to women on how they can attract wealthy partners.

In an Instagram video on Thursday, March 5, 2026, responding to a question from women asking where they can find rich men

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She explained that self-investment, confidence, and clear expectations can influence the kind of relationships they attract.

According to her, women should not focus on searching for wealthy partners but rather on improving themselves and allowing the right people to approach them.

“I’m not a gatekeeper, I can tell you where to get rich men,” she said. “But for me, I don’t look for rich men. Rich men come for me. I attract, I do not chase.”

Invest in appearance

Njenga advised women to prioritise their appearance and grooming, noting that presentation can shape first impressions.

She said women should invest in quality hair, well-done nails, lashes, and stylish outfits, while also maintaining a polished look when stepping out.

“There is no occasion,” she said. “You are the occasion.”

Njenga also encouraged women to wear perfume and jewellery and generally present themselves with confidence wherever they go.

Be confident about what you want

According to Njenga, women should be clear about their expectations when dating. She advised women to communicate their preferences early in a relationship rather than waiting until later.

“Start telling men what you want early when you start dating,” she said.

She added that some women may prefer financial support within relationships and should not shy away from expressing their expectations honestly.

Beyond relationships, Njenga emphasised the importance of financial independence and personal development.

She encouraged women to invest in their own businesses, careers, and education so that they are not dependent on partners for survival.

“Have your own money. Have your own business,” she said.

Njenga also advised women to focus on personal growth, including reading and developing intellectual capacity, saying confidence and self-improvement can play a role in attracting successful partners.