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Nurse Judy defends Nadia Mukami’s decision to co-parent with Arrow Bwoy
21st June, 2026 09:13 PM
Nurse Judy has come out strongly in support of singer Nadia Mukami following the backlash that the musician received for her recent remarks on co-parenting with Arrow Bwoy.
The media personality weighed in after Nadia addressed critics who questioned her decision to maintain a peaceful co-parenting relationship, saying she chooses emotional well-being over bitterness. While Nadia’s message attracted support from some quarters, it also drew criticism online, prompting Nurse Judy to share her views.
Nurse Judy backs Nadia’s position
In a social media post she wrote on Sunday, June 21, 2026, Nurse Judy defended Nadia’s outlook, arguing that there is nothing wrong with choosing peace after a relationship ends.
According to her, many of the negative reactions directed at Nadia appeared to come from people who were uncomfortable with seeing others move on and maintain healthy relationships with their former partners.
Referring to Nadia’s caption and the reactions it generated, Nurse Judy claimed that much of the criticism was coming from women. “I said it yesterday; I know ‘people’ in her caption are mainly women. Kenyan women have bad hearts, dirty spirits, jealousy and witchcraft,” she wrote.
Her remarks quickly sparked debate online, with supporters agreeing with her observations while others criticised her comments as unfair and overly broad.
Claims of growing bitterness online
As she continued her defence of Nadia, Nurse Judy suggested that some people get satisfaction from seeing others remain unhappy after breakups and personal struggles.
She argued that Nadia’s decision to prioritise peace and healthy co-parenting should not be viewed negatively. “They just love when you can join them in their misery. I can swear Kenyan women are leading the world in bitterness, jealousy and bad spirit,” she said.
Her comments came shortly after Nadia explained that she refuses to hold on to resentment, insisting that protecting her mental health is more important than responding to public judgment. The singer also noted that releasing negative emotions has helped her focus on her family, career and personal growth.
Calls for self-reflection
Nurse Judy further suggested that some of the criticism directed at women online often comes from individuals who have unresolved issues in their own lives. She argued that instead of constantly criticising others, people should focus on addressing their personal challenges.
“They will forever be constantly trying to drag other women every day, while their own issues remain unresolved,” she wrote.
Final remarks
As she concluded her message, Nurse Judy maintained that bitterness has become a common issue in many online discussions and urged people to focus on healing rather than judging others.
“Very weird human creatures, they want everyone to be bitter like them. Not all, but 98 per cent of Kenyan women need therapy. Bitterness much,” she concluded.
Her comments have since generated mixed reactions, with some praising her for defending Nadia Mukami and speaking openly about emotional wellbeing, while others have challenged the tone and generalisations in her statement.
