Oga Obinna appeals to Kenyans to help find the woman behind viral Joshua heartbreak videos

Media personality Oga Obinna has appealed to Kenyans to help him trace a young woman whose emotional videos over a man identified as Joshua have gone viral on social media.
In a video shared on his Instagram page on Sunday, August 2, 2026, Obinna said he wanted to hear the woman’s story and help her begin a healing journey after seeing several clips of her in tears.
The woman attracted attention online during Girlfriends Day celebrations that happened on August 1, 2026, after posting emotional videos in which she claimed that her partner, whom she identified as Joshua, had ignored her calls, leaving her heartbroken.
Obinna proposes a healing journey
After watching the viral videos, Obinna said he believes the woman is genuinely hurting and deserves support rather than ridicule.

He revealed that if she is an adult, he would like to organise a month-long healing journey involving a therapist, her closest friend and a few supervised outings to help her regain confidence.
“If she is above 20, someone find her for me. If not, kindly reach out to her parents as soon as possible. I think this is video number two or three I’ve seen,” Obinna said.
He explained that the idea was not to pressure her into another relationship but to remind her that life continues after heartbreak.
“We hear her story, then show her Joshua isn’t worth it. We get five guys around her age group. They shall go for supervised lunch dates, spa dates, movies and even some shopping. After that, she can decide whether Joshua is still worth it,” Obinna added.
‘She needs to know the world is bigger’
Obinna suggested that the woman could be experiencing her first heartbreak and said such experiences can be overwhelming, especially without the right support system. “Maybe it’s her first heartbreak, and she needs to know the world is bigger and there are better people out there,” he said.

He also proposed involving a professional therapist and the woman’s best friend throughout the process to ensure she receives emotional support. “We also need a therapist and her best friend to tag along on a one-month journey of healing,” Obinna said.
Calls for compassion instead of mockery
While many social media users have reacted to the viral videos with humour, Obinna urged Kenyans to remember that heartbreak affects people differently.
Drawing from his own experiences, he encouraged people to treat the woman with compassion instead of making fun of her situation. “The truth of the matter is she is hurting. I’ve been through heartbreaks, caused some and received some. I know how painful it is, and it makes you feel like the world is ending,” Obinna said.
He concluded by asking anyone who knows the woman to help connect her with him, expressing hope that with the right support, she can heal and move forward from the painful experience.