Andrew Kibe: Biggest mistake man can make is getting into a relationship
Andrew Kibe has spoken out strongly, saying that men make a significant mistake when they enter into relationships or marriage.
Speaking during a YouTube interview on Monday, September 29, 2025, Kibe said the biggest mistake any man can make is getting into a relationship. According to him, the idea of marriage or even chasing relationships is misleading and unnecessary for men.
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Kibe explained that when he was single, he had freedom, but that freedom ended once he got married. He described his past marriage as the point where he lost control of his own space and independence.
“That freedom is what I had, and then I got into marriage. And then I didn’t get that freedom,” he said.
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When asked about mistakes men make in relationships, Kibe was quick to respond. He said the mistake is the relationship itself. In his view, men should not spend their time and energy chasing relationships. He questioned why men feel the need to be in one, saying it adds no real value to their lives.
Kibe’s stand against marriage
Over the years, Kibe has been known for his anti-marriage stance. He often warns young men against being pressured into settling down. He believes society paints marriage as a good idea, but in reality, it strips men of their personal growth and freedom.
“Marriage sounds like a good idea, and young people like you are being encouraged to get into marriage,” Kibe said during the interview.
He went on to advise men to focus on themselves instead of relationships. In his opinion, a man’s main goal should be self-development and independence.
“As long as unataka relationship, you are wrong. Why do you need a relationship? The biggest mistake a man can make is getting into a relationship. Focus on building upon yourself. Achana na mambo ya watoi, hizo ni useless,” he said.
Kibe’s views are not new. He has openly spoken about his failed marriage in the past, often pointing to it as the reason he warns others.
He says marriage looks good from the outside, but once inside, it can feel like a cage. This experience has shaped his thinking and made him firm in warning men about what he sees as a trap.
Kibe argues that instead of being pushed into relationships, men should be told to focus on their goals, careers, and personal growth.
