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Why celebrating birthdays at school may not be a good idea
22nd June, 2026 05:29 PM
For many children, a birthday is one of the most exciting days of the year.
In some Kenyan schools, parents have taken the tradition a step further by organising birthday celebrations during school hours, bringing cakes, snacks, drinks, and sometimes even entertainment for classmates.
At first glance, it looks like a harmless and joyful idea. Children sing, laugh, take photos, and enjoy a short break from the normal school routine. For about an hour, the classroom is filled with excitement and happiness.
Disadvantage of birthdays at school
However, beneath the celebration, some parents and teachers say the practice is slowly creating problems that affect both learning and relationships at school and at home.
One of the main concerns is disruption of the school programme.
Teachers often have to adjust lessons, pause teaching, or manage a hyperactive class after the excitement of cakes and sugar. What starts as a short celebration can easily affect concentration for the rest of the day, and sometimes even the whole week as children continue talking about it.
There is also pressure building among parents.
When one parent throws a big birthday party at school, others feel expected to do the same. This creates unnecessary competition, where birthdays become about who brought the biggest cake or the most snacks, instead of simply celebrating a child’s life in a meaningful way.
In many Kenyan households, however, not all parents can afford such celebrations. Some are struggling with school fees, rent, and daily expenses.
When children see classmates bringing cakes and soft drinks, they may start asking their own parents for similar celebrations. This puts financial pressure on families who may already be stretched.
Additionally, there is another worrying issue, social comparison among children. Kids start noticing who brought what. Those whose parents brought cakes or gifts may feel superior, while others may feel left out or embarrassed if they come from families that cannot afford such treats.
In some cases, this can even lead to bullying or teasing. A child who did not have a birthday celebration in school may be made to feel less important.
This affects their confidence and sense of belonging in class.
At home, the pressure does not end. Parents sometimes report birthday demands from children who want school celebrations like their friends.
What is meant to be a simple milestone turns into a source of stress and financial strain.
In the end, the question remains: should birthdays in school be about celebration, or should they remain personal family moments shared outside the classroom?
