Nurse Judy reveals the hard truth about moving abroad that many ignore
By Paulette Mboga, April 5, 2026Nurse Judy has shared her experience of settling abroad, explaining that life outside the country is not as easy as many people think.
She said moving to a new country comes with many challenges that go beyond having money.
She explained that many people expect things to work out quickly, but the reality is different. According to her, adapting to a new environment takes time, effort, and understanding how systems work.
“Moving abroad will teach you that having money is NOT enough… you need systems, history, and knowledge,” Nurse Judy said on Sunday, April 5, 2026.
She added that the process tested her in ways she did not expect. She said she faced emotional moments while trying to adjust to a new life far from home.
“I struggled, cried, but I figured it out,” she said.
Settling abroad comes with unexpected challenges
Nurse Judy explained that settling in a new country without proper guidance can be difficult. She said many people find themselves confused while trying to understand new systems and ways of life.
She added that the journey can be overwhelming, especially when support is not easily available. According to her, some people go through moments of doubt and even think of giving up.
“Wueeh kujeni hapa, navigating a new country, new systems, no proper guidance… is not close to easy, you will cry, you will jump, you will want to beg for a ticket back home on the next flight,” she said.
She also spoke about the reality of interacting with others abroad. She explained that not everyone is willing to help as expected, even within familiar communities.
“People are NOT always willing to help the way you think they will,” Nurse Judy said.
She further noted that some individuals may not share useful information openly. She said this can make the process harder for newcomers trying to find their way.
“Most will gatekeep information. Some will mislead you, intentionally or not,” she explained.
Nurse Judy added that in some cases, help can come with conditions. She said this can leave people feeling controlled or uncomfortable in their new environment.
“Some will help you… Then turn that help into control or entitlement. I experienced this first hand,” she said.
She encouraged those going through similar struggles to remain strong. She said patience is key when adjusting to life abroad, and things take time to improve.