Nurse Judy explains how she balances independence and traditional marriage roles
Nurse Judy has explained how she balances independence with traditional marriage roles, saying her approach is based on personal choice and love.
She said that despite being hardworking and running her own affairs, she still values her role as a partner at home. She explained that her lifestyle reflects both strength and softness.
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She said many people may see her as fully independent, but that does not mean she does not value having a man. She explained that she believes in love and commitment and chooses to express it in her own way. She added that her choices are not based on pressure but on what works for her.
“One thing about me… I love hard. I will forever be a lover girl,” Nurse Judy said.
She explained that she still embraces some traditional roles in her relationship. She said that after many years, she continues to show care through simple actions at home. She added that these actions are part of how she expresses love and connection.
“I’m still that traditional-modern baddie, a super submissive wifey by choice,” she said.
Work and home life
Nurse Judy said her daily routine reflects the balance she has built over time. She explained that she still wakes up to prepare her partner and make breakfast. She added that she does this willingly and not because she is expected to.
“14 years later and I still wake up to prep my man and make him good, good breakfast… not because it’s his right or because I have to, but because I choose to,” Nurse Judy said.
She said her independence remains strong even with these choices. She explained that she works hard and manages her own responsibilities without relying on anyone. She added that being independent does not stop her from wanting a partner in her life.
“I may look very independent, and yes, I work very hard, I run my show, but I’m not one of those women who feel like they don’t need a man because of that. I need mine… tena sana,” she said.
Nurse Judy added that she also enjoys caring for her partner in different ways. She said showing affection and attention is something she values. She explained that this is part of how she builds her relationship.
“Na pia napenda kumdekeza,” Nurse Judy said.
Her take comes after Gloria Ntazola expressed her reservations about entering into a marriage arrangement due to her fear of traditional gender roles.
