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Lillian Ng’ang’a questions narrative that men don’t love children
27th March, 2026 10:32 PM
Social media personality Lillian Ng’ang’a has ignited debate after questioning the widespread narrative that men do not love their children.
Her comments come amid ongoing discussions about parental absence in families, particularly the higher rates of paternal absence compared to maternal absence.
Taking to her official Instagram account on Friday, March 27, 2026, Lillian noted that while statistics show fathers are more often absent than mothers, this does not automatically mean men do not care for or love their children.
“Paternal absence has always been higher than maternal absence. From this, the discourse about ‘men don’t love children’ remains. Is this the truth?” Lillian questioned.
By questioning this narrative, Lillian hopes to encourage a more nuanced understanding of men’s relationships with their children, recognising both their struggles and their contributions.
Lillian on parenting after separation
Speaking during a TV interview on Monday, August 4, 2025, Lillian shared heartfelt advice based on her personal experience, urging parents to protect their children from emotional damage during and after a breakup.
“I always say, your child will grow up. And when kids grow up, even when we grew up, you get to understand your parents better,” she said.
“We should never negatively brand the other party. Let the kid grow up and find out the truth, or the lies, or whatever.”
Lillian stressed that children are highly observant and pick up on everything happening around them — including unspoken tension or bitterness between parents. She encouraged parents to let go of anger and focus on healing, reminding them that a failed relationship is not the end of life.
“If you are in a state of mourning your relationship, the kids are going to see the energy, you know. So just move on, life has happened. Just move on,” she advised.
