Koku Lwanga breaks down secret to managing kids’ public tantrums

Content creator Koku Lwanga has opened up about the challenges of raising her twins, offering practical advice on handling public tantrums without losing her cool.

In an Instagram post on Monday, February 16, 2026, Koku responded to a fan who praised her parenting after spotting her during a recent outing. The fan spotted Koku handling her twins while one of the children started crying. The fan commended her, noting that she gave her child big hugs and remained calm in front of onlookers. “You are a good mum,” the fan wrote

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Koku explained that mastering her own calmness is the first step. “Yes, they were showing me master shege. The Irish twins decided to throw tantrums at the same time,” she wrote.

She highlighted that when her nervous system is regulated, she can better support her twins emotionally, even when they act out simultaneously.

“I tell you, mastering calmness is everything. I’m a much more better mum with so much more bandwidth to carry their nervous system when my nervous system is regulated,” she noted.

The mother of two emphasised that understanding her own emotional state allows her to approach tantrums with patience rather than frustration.

The content creator also stressed the importance of recognising what triggers tantrums. By observing patterns in behaviour, she has learned to anticipate difficult moments and respond proactively.

“Get rid of everything that disregulates how much nervous system you approach, much calmer shege. Hata si mimi,” Koku noted, underscoring the value of preparation and mindfulness.

Beyond emotional regulation, Koku advised practical steps for parents facing public meltdowns.

She encouraged keeping children engaged, offering gentle redirection, and maintaining consistency in responses. By creating a calm environment and setting clear boundaries, she says parents can navigate tantrums without escalating the situation.