Benjamin Zulu: Men cheat with easier and not better women
Renowned life coach Benjamin Zulu has shared his insights on the type of women married men cheat with.
In a video shared on his official social media channel, Zulu explained that men often pursue extramarital partners with fewer boundaries, lower self-respect, or less stringent standards
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According to Zulu, it is rarely about the woman being better but rather about her being easier.
“Men do not cheat with better; they cheat with easier, so he is not coming to you because you are better; he is coming to you because you are easier,” Zulu revealed.
“You have less boundaries, you have less self-respect, and you have less standards. He just found access.”
Zulu emphasised that men rarely cheat on women with strong self-respect, as such women would not tolerate infidelity. Instead, they target partners who are more likely to tolerate or enable their behaviour.
“A woman who cannot tolerate being cheated on won’t allow him to cheat with you, the woman he is cheating with usually is the type who will cheat on him as well,” he stated.
“This is a woman who belongs to the deception world, who has loose boundaries with the exception of children, adolencent and pre 25, between 18 to 25. These kids are usually out in the world and do not have mental maturity, so many of them are deceived by married men, even when they are not inherently and unprincipled.”
Unfaithful married men.
He explained that when men lack discipline, they may break promises of loyalty without justification, treating cheating as if it is normal behaviour.
“When men lack discipline because there is no justification at all for marrying a person promising loyalty, then going around and breaking that trust that you promised her, and then it is being made like it is normal,” he added.
“The fact that he is cheating behind her back after promising faithfulness and loyalty; he himself is very dishonest, so who does he move to? He does not move to another self-respecting woman because she will never cooperate with that nonsense.”
Zulu’s insights shed light on the mindset behind infidelity, highlighting the importance of boundaries, self-respect, and awareness in protecting oneself from being exploited in relationships.
