Nurse Judy: I’d rather leave your group chat than leave my man
Nurse Judy has spoken firmly about her marriage, making it clear that she values her husband and will not be swayed by outside voices.
Her comments come after a recent revelation that her husband had sired a child with their housekeeper. Judy explained that at the time, they had separated, and therefore, she does not see a problem with it. She even added that the child resembles hers, and she has accepted the situation positively.
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Addressing critics on Instagram on Wednesday, October 1, 2025, Judy stated that she would never walk away from her man just because of people’s opinions. “Ati ‘leave him’… babe, I’d rather leave your group chat,” she remarked, showing her commitment to her marriage despite the challenges.
She further dismissed constant speculation about a breakup, saying those waiting for such news would continue to wait. “Najua watu wanangoja headlines za breakup… poleni, this season ni honeymoon part 13,” she wrote, adding a playful tone to underline her confidence in her relationship.
Marriage not TikTok trend
According to Judy, marriage is a long-term commitment that cannot be compared to short social media trends. “Marriage si TikTok trend ya 30 seconds, inahitaji grit, GRACE & God… sio keyboard warriors,” she said. Her message was clear that building a strong marriage requires patience, resilience, and faith.
She also emphasised that she married for love and vision, not for outside validation. “Sorry, not sorry, mimi niliolewa kwa love na vision, sio emotions za strangers kwa comment section,” she explained, dismissing online pressure and criticism.
In another strong statement, Judy described her marriage as valuable and unshakable. “I know what I have…it’s GOLD, not group opinion,” she declared, adding that she knows the worth of her union regardless of what others may say.
Judy also pointed out that her marriage has already passed difficult tests and remains intact. “Hii marriage yetu ilishapita stress test, yenu bado iko pilot stage,” she said. To her, happiness and peace in her relationship come before any external judgment.
She ended her remarks by making it clear she is content. “Misery loves company, lakini sorry hun, I’m already booked in a happy marriage,” she concluded.
