Content creator Ntazola Gloria calls out toxic male behaviour on TikTok
Outspoken digital content creator Ntazola Gloria has launched a fiery message to young men who spend their time online bashing and insulting women, calling them bitter, misguided, and completely out of touch with the responsibilities of manhood.
In a passionate rant shared on TikTok on the night of Wednesday, July 9, 2025, Gloria did not hold back as she addressed a growing trend where young men take to social media—especially TikTok—to shame, label, and degrade women, often calling them derogatory names.
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She urged them to step out and find meaningful work — even farming — if they are truly idle, saying they are often misguided in offering opinionated remarks about women they encounter online, most of whom they do not even know personally.
“These small boys with no money love calling women hoes. Get off TikTok and go farm. You keep insulting women every day. What do you even know about hoes? You do not even have money,” she said, visibly frustrated.
Gloria pointed out that men who have built themselves up and understand their worth do not waste time demeaning women online.
Instead, they live with purpose and treat women with respect.
“People with money do not speak about women like that. You piss me off. Your age mates are out there working hard, chasing goals — what is wrong with you?”
She took issue with the entitled tone many of these men use when talking about women, noting that historically, men were expected to provide, protect, and fight for women, not complain about them online.
She also reminded them that real men are meant to treat women like queens and adore them every single day, saying it deeply pains her that today’s generation of men is doing the exact opposite.
“Men were meant to provide for women. They were meant to go out and fight for women. They were meant to protect women,” she said. “You are supposed to worship and adore women. What is wrong with you? What is wrong with this generation of men?”
Advice to women
Earlier on Monday, May 19, 2025, the cosmetician urged women to stop settling for bare-minimum treatment from men who flash the title of big boys but can only manage to offer Ksh20,000 for a night out.
In a post on her Instagram stories, Ntazola confidently reminded women that they are far too elegant, valuable, and high-calibre to spend their nights outside dancing and entertaining men in exchange for what she described as pocket change.
According to her, women should only entertain such small-time money from men when it is being channelled directly into meaningful things like their businesses, but not when it is being splashed on them in clubs and packaged as some life-changing favour.
“These men buying you alcohol worth Ksh20,000 are the same ones you are calling ‘big boys’? Come, let me take you out and get you drinks worth Ksh100,000 — and please, never go dancing at Obilee again. You are far too gorgeous and refined to be spending your nights outside dancing for just Ksh20,000, unless he is giving you that money to invest in your hustle or business,” she wrote.
She went on to challenge the narrative that being bought drinks worth Ksh20K is a luxury, saying that true class means knowing your worth, protecting your energy, and being able to say no to flashy but low-value offers that do not match the effort or standard you bring to the table.
Adding a bold twist to her message, Ntazola suggested that women should focus on levelling up so much financially and mentally that they could even afford to fund their boyfriend’s side chick if they chose to.
She insisted that this would help prove to men that they are operating in an entirely different league — one where power, choice, and control lie firmly in their own hands.
“Be the kind of woman who is so financially secure that you can even afford your boyfriend’s side chick, just so you can try her too. Have both of them if you want, babe. Who knows, maybe she tastes good,” she concluded.
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