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Why Saturday morning is the best time to call family members

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Why Saturday morning is the best time to call family members

Think about the people who matter most to you. Now think about the last time you actually called them. Not a quick WhatsApp voice note, not a reaction emoji on a status update, but a real call where you heard their voice and they heard yours.

For most people, that gap is longer than they are comfortable admitting.

Life fills up fast. Monday through Friday is owned by work, traffic, and the thousand small urgencies that crowd out the things we actually care about.

By Friday evening, you are drained. Saturday morning, though, is different. There is no meeting to rush to, no commute, no deadline.

The weekend has not yet filled itself with errands. That window, roughly 8 am to 11 am, is arguably the most unhurried stretch of the Kenyan week.

Why the call matters more than you think

Researchers at the University of Texas at Austin found that people consistently underestimate how connecting a phone call actually is.

Their study, published in the Journal of Experimental Psychology, found that “people feel significantly more connected through voice-based media, but they have these fears about awkwardness that are pushing them towards text-based media.”

An elderly man in rural Kenya smiling gently as he listens to a call on his phone. PHOTO/Gemini

In short: you default to texting because it feels easier, but a call does something a message simply cannot.

Hearing a voice activates something a blue tick never will – warmth, laughter, the subtle reassurance of knowing someone is genuinely present on the other end.

Making Saturday morning calls a habit

Treat the call like an appointment, not an afterthought. Pick two or three people per week and rotate – a parent one Saturday, a distant relative the next, an old university friend the one after.

A man pauses his motorbike wash routine to make his scheduled Saturday morning call. PHOTO/Gemini

Saturday morning is a natural anchor because it recurs, it is unhurried, and it sits entirely outside the transactional urgency of weekdays.

You do not need an agenda. “I was just thinking about you” is reason enough.

Most people are not waiting for something to report, they are waiting for someone to call first.

Start this weekend. Pick one person. Dial.

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