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Why I chose a big family: Onyonka opens up on his children and views on polygamy
25th May, 2026 01:16 PM
Kisii Senator Richard Onyonka has shared a glimpse into his personal life, explaining why he ended up with a large family and multiple relationships that have drawn public debate.
Speaking openly during an interview on Monday, May 25, 2026, he said his situation is not as simple as many assume, stressing that family structures often evolve in unexpected ways rather than through a single deliberate plan.
He insists his children are central to his life and that he has embraced his role as a father without hesitation.
On polygamy and public perception
Onyonka addressed the controversy surrounding polygamy, saying it is often misunderstood. “Polygamy is not a simple thing about A and B; it is not even sexual,” he said. According to him, it is an arrangement that can develop over time, sometimes consciously and sometimes unconsciously.
He added that public judgment often ignores context, especially when comparing different cultures and religions. “If I were a Muslim, I would most probably have four wives and many children, and nobody would give a damn,” he noted, arguing that societal standards are often applied unevenly.
Personal background and family choices
The senator revealed that his upbringing influenced his outlook on family. Being an only child from both his father’s and mother’s sides, he said he developed a desire for a larger family environment.
“I just decided like, I need some people around me,” he explained. He also acknowledged that some of his children came from relationships that did not work out. Rather than separate from them completely, he chose to remain present in their lives and take responsibility as a father.
Co-parenting and family unity
Onyonka further stated that despite challenges with different relationships, he has remained committed to raising his children. “I’ve never asked for a fundraiser. My children don’t go hungry,” he said, adding that all his children are supported and accommodated. He emphasised that they move between homes and maintain relationships with their mothers.
While he admits disagreements exist between the mothers, he prefers to focus on unity among the children. “My kids are happy, and they love me, and we are really a big happy family,” he said, describing a life centred on co-parenting and family stability.
