TikToker Cindy vows never to spend on men again after ex-lover Janabi remarries

TikToker Cindy Baibe has declared that she will never again spend money on a man, days after her former lover, fellow TikToker Janabi, moved on and remarried.

Speaking in a TikTok live on Saturday, May 9, 2026, the outspoken content creator said she had completely changed her mindset when it comes to relationships and financial support.

Cindy explained that in the past, she used to joke around with money while dating, but she has since decided to draw strict boundaries.

“Men, please never ask me for money, especially if you are dating me. If you are trying to pursue me, do it using your own money and not mine. Spoil me using money from your own pocket,” she said.

According to the TikToker, she no longer wants to financially support men she is romantically involved with and instead prefers a relationship where the man takes the lead in spending and providing.

She maintained that any man pursuing her should do so using his own resources rather than depending on her financially.

“I used to joke around with money while dating men, but now I have warned myself. Even if we are enjoying ourselves and sharing intimacy, that is where it should end because I will never spend money on a man again,” she added.

Cindy further suggested that her past experiences had taught her hard lessons about mixing love and money, saying she had now warned herself against repeating the same mistakes again.

“I now want a man who will give me love and intimacy and still spend money on me as well,” she stated.

How did Cindy react to Janabi’s wedding

Following Janabi’s glamorous wedding to his new partner, Coastal Palm, Cindy broke down emotionally and issued a series of curses.

Speaking in a TikTok live, Cindy, who appeared heartbroken, expressed deep frustration and anger over the marriage.

“I sympathise with you. I took you in when you did not even have a life. At that time, when I started staying with you, no lady was even looking at you. I picked you when no one wanted you. You will never see good things in life, Janabi, because of what you have done. You will die in poverty, you will never see good things come your way, and you will live to cry. You will never know happiness,” she said while crying uncontrollably.

In her remarks, Cindy claimed that she had stood by Janabi during difficult times in his life, insisting that she supported him when he had little and when no one else showed interest in him.

She accused him of betrayal, saying she had taken him in when his life was at its lowest, only for him to later move on and marry someone else.

“All the women you date will also suffer. They will be going to theatre to give birth and will be in pain, and you will live to see that pain. In fact, you will never live to have a crying baby of your own. You will suffer your whole life,” she said bitterly.

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