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Shakib Cham explains why ages 25 to 35 feel like the hardest phase
03rd February, 2026 06:12 PM
Ugandan socialite Zari Hassan’s husband, Shakib Cham, has opened up on why he believes ages 25 to 35 are among the hardest years in life, describing the period as one filled with pressure, loss, and self-doubt.
In a post on Instagram on Tuesday, February 3, 2026, he said people in this age group face multiple changes at the same time, which can feel overwhelming.
“Ages 25–35 can be tough,” Shakib said, pointing to the emotional and mental strain many experience during this phase.
He explained that one of the biggest challenges is watching parents grow older while still trying to find personal stability.
“You’re dealing with your parents getting older,” Shakib said, noting that this reality often brings fear and responsibility. He added that the shift can be difficult to process, especially when combined with other pressures in life.
Shakib speaks on pressure and isolation
Shakib said friendships also change during this stage of life, leaving many people feeling isolated.
“You’re dealing with fewer friends,” he said, explaining that people grow apart as priorities change.
He highlighted that losing close connections can make this phase feel lonely, even when someone appears to be doing well on the outside. Career pressure is another major challenge during these years, according to Shakib.
“You’re dealing with career stress,” he said, noting that many people feel rushed to succeed or compare themselves to others. Which is normal in today’s world. The pressure to achieve milestones can create anxiety and constant worry about the future.
Shakib also highlighted self-doubt as a common struggle for people between 25 and 35.
“You’re dealing with self-doubt,” he said, adding that many begin questioning their choices and direction.
Despite the challenges, Shakib encouraged those going through this stage to remain hopeful.
“Stay strong, you’ve got this,” he said, offering reassurance to anyone feeling stuck or overwhelmed.
From his post, he explains that struggles during these years do not mean failure, but rather growth and learning. The challenges of ages 25 to 35 are shared by many, and Shakib is reminding people that even during uncertain moments, strength and progress are still possible.
