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‘My ulcers’: Ofweneke calls out the habit of creating attachments with problems
21st April, 2026 03:11 PM
Media personality and stand-up comedian Sande Bush, widely known as Dr Ofweneke, has raised concern over a growing habit where people turn their struggles into part of their identity.
Speaking in a message on Tuesday, April 21, 2026, he warned that constantly claiming problems as “mine” can make it harder for people to overcome them. He said many people are unknowingly holding onto issues in how they speak about them.
“Stop giving problems an admission number in your life!” Dr Ofweneke said on Tuesday, April 21, 2026.
He explained that phrases like “my ulcers, my asthma, my heart issues have started” or “mimi sinaga pesa by 5th” show how people attach themselves to their struggles. He said this way of speaking makes the problems feel permanent and personal. He added that such habits can limit growth and delay change.
“You can’t fight what you have already owned!!” the comedian emphasised.
Dr Ofweneke pointed out that people should be careful with their words and mindset. He explained that repeating negative patterns can shape how someone sees their life. According to him, letting go of ownership is the first step toward dealing with challenges in a healthier way.
Breaking the mindset of owning struggles
He said many people are used to speaking about their problems in a way that makes them feel normal. He explained that this mindset can trap someone in a cycle where nothing changes. He encouraged people to shift how they talk and think about their situations.
“My relationships never last 2 years!” he said, giving an example of how people repeat patterns.
He urged individuals to reflect on how they describe their lives and challenges. He explained that change begins with awareness and a decision to think differently. He added that people should focus on solutions instead of repeating problems.
“It’s not about your tears, the level of your voice or how much you blackmail God in your prayers,” he said.
In his earlier advice, Dr Ofweneke stressed that inner character matters more than outward actions. He explained that someone may appear blessed but still carry negative emotions that affect their life. He said people should examine their hearts and intentions closely.
“If you are ‘blessed’ but you are full of anger, bitterness, envy e.t.c you might wanna check God might not actually be the one blessing you,” he said.
