‘Kuteleza si kuanguka’: Bolo Bespoke’s wife Mueni urges Njugush and Wakavinye to reconcile
Fashion designer Bolo Bespoke’s wife, Mueni, has weighed in on the recent reports surrounding the separation of comedian Timothy Kimani and his wife, Celestine Ndinda, urging the couple to consider reconciliation despite their breakup.
In an emotional address shared on TikTok on Thursday, April 23, 2026, Mueni said she felt compelled to speak on the matter because it had deeply touched her heart.
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She clarified from the outset that she does not consider herself a marriage advisor or counsellor, noting that relationships are ultimately personal decisions between two individuals.
“I have had a long day, and this is something that has really touched my heart. I feel I need to speak about it so it can leave my heart. First, I want to clarify that I am not a marriage advisor, and I do not want to be a counsellor, because when two people love each other, it is up to them,” she said.
However, she emphasised that marriage is inherently challenging and requires patience, understanding, and time. Drawing from her own experience, Mueni noted that even in her own marriage, things are not always easy, stressing that no relationship is without struggles.
“But I want to talk about this marriage. Marriage is not easy; even mine is not easy. Do not think it is. You love your marriage and I love mine, but it is never easy because your husband is not your brother, your mother, or your family. He is someone who grew up differently before you met,” she stated.
She explained that partners often come from different backgrounds and life experiences, which makes understanding each other a gradual process. According to her, even couples who have been together for years never fully learn everything about one another, making it unrealistic to expect complete understanding within a short period.
“It takes time to come together and understand each other, and even then you never fully understand a person. You cannot learn everything about someone at once,” Mueni said.
Addressing the reported duration of the separation, Mueni described it as a relatively short time, arguing that relationships can still be repaired even after long periods apart. She pointed out that some couples reconcile after many years and end up building even stronger bonds than before.
“So even if you have been separated for over a year, that is still a short time. Some people reconcile after 10 or even 20 years and love each other even more,” she added.
While acknowledging that she does not personally know the couple, Mueni said she was aware of them through her husband, who has previously worked with them. She maintained that her message was not meant to interfere but to encourage reflection on the value of marriage.
Mueni further described marriage as an important institution that often faces numerous challenges, including external pressures such as jealousy and negativity from others.
She suggested that such forces can contribute to conflicts within relationships, making it even more important for couples to remain committed to working through their differences.
“Njugush and Wakavinye, this message is for you. I do not know you personally, but my husband does. Marriage is a good institution, but it is also the most fought. There is jealousy and many challenges that come against it,” she said.
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