Kitt Kiarie says religious women face more abuse
Content creator Kitt Kiarie has said that women in religious spaces face higher levels of abuse, pointing to how marriage expectations are often shaped.
On Sunday, March 29, 2026, she explained that religion, which she describes as man-made, has created systems where women are not fully protected. She adds that this has affected how women are treated in relationships and marriages.
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“Unfortunately, because religion is man-made, women are the least taken care of. Especially when it comes to their use to men, i.e., in marriage,” Kitt Kiarie said.
She explains that many women stay in difficult situations because of pressure to maintain marriages at all costs. She says these expectations often leave women with little room to speak out or leave unhealthy relationships. According to her, this has led to a pattern where women continue to suffer in silence.
“Religious women are the most abused,” Kitt Kiarie said.
Kiarie also speaks about how relationship dynamics play out when couples separate. She says men often move on quickly without facing judgment, while women are left waiting or dealing with uncertainty. She adds that this imbalance creates emotional harm for women who are expected to remain patient.
Marriage expectations and imbalance
She explains that society has normalised situations where women are expected to tolerate unclear commitments. She says this puts women at a disadvantage, especially when they are told to wait while men continue with their lives. According to her, this pattern needs to be questioned.
“Firstly, may we not marry our enemies. Because men can move on without judgment, you move on and leave your ex in limbo waiting for you,” Kitt Kiarie said.
Kiarie also addresses women who agree to such arrangements, saying they should reconsider their choices. She explains that staying in such situations only continues the cycle and makes it harder for change to happen. She adds that women need to recognise their value and make firm decisions.
“Secondly, the woman who agrees to live with a man holding another woman in limbo for this long is clowning harder than actual party clowns,” Kitt Kiarie said.
She maintains that change will only come when women stop accepting unfair treatment. She explains that both individuals and society have a role to play in ending these patterns. She adds that awareness is the first step toward addressing the issue.
