‘Is it still love?’ – Arrow Bwoy raises tough question on sidechicks and relationships
By Paulette Mboga, April 7, 2026Musician Arrow Bwoy has raised a question about love and loyalty in relationships, asking whether good treatment still counts when a partner is unfaithful.
On Tuesday, April 7, 2026, he shared his thoughts while reflecting on how people define love in modern relationships.
He said that some partners provide everything needed in a relationship, but still choose to have someone else on the side. He highlighted that this creates a situation where actions and feelings do not match.
“NIKO NA SWALI,” Arrow Boy said.
He went on to question whether love can still exist when there is cheating involved. He explained that even if someone feels cared for, the presence of a side partner changes the meaning of that care. He added that trust becomes a key issue in such situations.
“If your partner treats you well but still has a Sidechick/Side Nigga, does that cancel out the love?” Arrow Boy asked.
Choices people make in complicated relationships
He continued by asking how someone should respond when faced with such a situation. He explained that the question is about whether to accept the situation or to leave. He added that it is not always easy to decide.
“MTU WAKO ANAKUPEA KILA KITU KWA RELATIONSHIP NA AKO NA SIDECHICK / SIDE DUDE UTATULIA AMA UTAJITOA,” Arrow Boy said.
He explained that relationships often involve both emotional and practical needs. He said that when one part is strong and the other is broken, it creates conflict. He added that people must weigh what matters most to them.
Arrow Bwoy’s question can be seen as one that is meant to make people reflect on their own situations. He said everyone has a different answer based on their experience and explained that there is no single response that fits all cases.
In his own life, Arrow Bwoy has been in a steady relationship with fellow singer Nadia Mukami. The two have built a family together and are raising their two boys. Their relationship has remained calm and free from public drama, showing a different side to the questions he raises about love and loyalty.