Gloria Ntazola claims it’s embarrassing for a woman to cry over a man
Internet sensation and entrepreneur Gloria Ntazola has shared her blunt views on relationships and emotional attachment.
Ntazola, in a statement shared on her official Instagram account on Wednesday, January 14, 2026, said she finds it embarrassing for a grown woman to cry over a man who has done little or nothing for her.
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She questioned why someone would shed tears for a man who has never even bought her a simple gift.
“A whole grown woman crying over a man who has never bought her a bracelet. So embarrassing?” Ntazola questioned.
The entrepreneur went on to add that such men do not deserve that level of emotional investment, claiming that some cannot even afford basic gestures of care.
“That little man can’t even buy you a bicycle,” she added.
Ntazola on love life
This comes after the internet sensation disclosed the role she and her future husband will play.
She said that she will use her money for beauty enhancements while leaving things like a shamba and other investments for her future husband to come with.
The beauty entrepreneur further explained that her focus is on personal grooming and cosmetic procedures, which she considers essential for confidence and professionalism in her career.
“Pesa zangu nizakujiumba. Shamba na investment bwana atakuianazo,” she said.
Ntazola has always been open about her commitment to beauty and self-care.
Apart from husband duties, Ntazola made it clear that she cannot be in a polygamous marriage, noting that only a “stupid girl” believes a married man will leave his wife and choose her or treat her better.
According to her, it is a delusion of the highest degree to think that a married man will suddenly prioritise another woman.
“I can play games with a married man, but never become a second wife. It’s only a stupid girl who thinks a man who has a wife already will pick her and treat her better than the first wife, delusional to the highest degree. Men don’t even have a type, tuanzie apo,” Ntazola answered.
She went on and challenged women who assume they can outperform the first wife, saying there is no guarantee of loyalty or special treatment simply because a man shows interest.
“What makes you think you are a better performer than the first wife? Men who end up with more than one wife are very greedy, mannerless men who will never be content with even ten women,” she added.
However, she added that if a woman insists on becoming a second wife, it should be approached as a business arrangement, not out of love.
“If you must be a second wife, please go there for business and not love girl maths!”Ntazola stated.
