Dr Ofweneke says ladies must post partners fully this Valentine’s, no cropped pics
By Paulette Mboga, February 11, 2026Media personality and stand-up comedian Sande Bush, widely known as Dr Ofweneke, has said that men have agreed women should post their partners fully in Valentine’s Day photos.
In an Instagram post on Wednesday, February 11, 2026, he claimed that if men are spending on February 14, they should not be cropped out of pictures.
According to him, “the investor must be known.”
“Come here, ladies, do not even try to scroll. Ladies, come here and sit down,” he said.
He added, “nitakusomea na nita ku shoutia, hata kama mimi si chali yako.”
He made it clear that he was speaking on behalf of men.
“Now, as men, we have sat down, and we have agreed, all the men,” he said.
He repeated that the agreement was collective. He insisted that if a man is taking someone out on Valentine’s Day, he should be posted fully.
Valentine’s photo rules
Dr Ofweneke said women should stop cutting off men’s heads in photos.
“If you are posting a photo, please, you are not cutting off my head in that photo, you must post me full,” he stated.
He stressed that a full-grown man should not appear as just a hand or a cropped face.
“Mimi si omena that you are cutting off my head,” he said.
He added that posting a man without his full face is not acceptable.
“I am a full-grown man, please post me with my full head,” he insisted.
He was referring to a common trend where women share pictures from dates but do not clearly show the men they are with. In some cases, only a hand, part of a shoulder, or a cropped image appears in the photo. Dr Ofweneke suggested that this should change.
According to him, if a man is paying for the meal or organising the date, he should not be hidden. He said men have agreed that Valentine’s photos should show them clearly and completely. His message was direct and focused on recognition.
He urged women to stop cropping men out and instead show them properly.