Harusi si emergency: Oga Obinna questions wedding fundraising
By Valerian Khakayi, June 11, 2026Media personality and comedian Steve Thompson Maghana, widely known as Oga Obinna, has questioned the growing culture of fundraising for weddings, arguing that couples should plan celebrations within their means instead of relying heavily on contributions from friends and family.
Speaking during an interview with Milele FM, Obinna wondered why many people treat weddings as emergencies that require financial support from others.
“Kuchanga harusi,mbona tunachanga harusi? hasuri si emergency. Kama hauna pesa, achana nayo. enda ile kidogo uko nayo mtu wako ataku appreciate,” Obinna said.
According to Obinna, couples should first organise their weddings based on what they can comfortably afford.
He noted that genuine support from friends often comes naturally when people see a couple making an effort within their financial means.
“Ukisha jipanga, ata marafiki zako watasema, ‘Wacha pia sisi tumsupport,’” he added.
The comedian also took issue with the practice of adding people to wedding fundraising groups and assigning them contribution targets. In his view, such expectations place unnecessary pressure on individuals who may already be dealing with their own financial responsibilities.
“Lakini unaweka watu kwa group na unawapea target ya kuchanga haifai,Kila mtu ajipange kivyake,” Obinna stated.
Drawing from his experience as a master of ceremonies at weddings, Obinna revealed that he has witnessed situations where guests were assigned specific items to bring in support of a wedding.
“Nimewai MC harusi zengine watu walikuwa wanapatiwa vitu zakuleta.
Wedding fundraising culture
Wedding fundraising has become a common practice in Kenya, where couples preparing to get married often turn to friends, family, and colleagues for financial support.
This is usually done through organised groups, commonly known as “harambees”, where people are invited to contribute money or resources to help cover wedding expenses.
In many cases, couples create WhatsApp groups or committees to coordinate contributions, set targets, and track pledges. Supporters may be asked to contribute specific amounts or even provide items such as food, décor, or transport services.
While this approach helps ease financial pressure on couples, it can also create tension among invitees who feel pressured to contribute beyond their means.