Esther Musila shares powerful blueprint for letting go of toxic relationships
By Paulette Mboga, June 27, 2026Esther Musila has shared a powerful message encouraging people to let go of negative relationships and make bold decisions that protect their peace.
She said people should not be afraid to remove those who do not add value to their lives. She also urged people to be careful about who they trust.
“Never put temporary people in the permanent places of your life. Don’t be afraid of removing the Wrong People from the Right places of your life. If it’s your life, then it’s your right. Be bold to take any decision concerning your life,” Esther Musila said on Saturday, June 27, 2026.
She explained that people should not feel guilty for making decisions that are best for them. Esther said others may misunderstand those choices, but staying true to yourself is more important than trying to please everyone.
“If they call it pride, tell them it’s class. No matter the Economy of the Jungle, Lions will never eat Grass. Even if education is free, a rat will never go to the same school as a cat,” Esther Musila said.
Choosing the right people
Esther also warned against keeping negative people close. She explained that the people around someone can influence the direction their life takes, making it important to choose relationships wisely.
“You cannot go anywhere with negative people. Negative people are like cars without fuel and engines. You can only sit in them, but they will NEVER take you anywhere,” Esther Musila said.
She encouraged people to learn from their experiences and use those lessons to make better decisions. Esther also reminded people to think carefully before sharing personal matters with others.
“You can’t change what you see until you learn from what you see. Be careful who you open up to. Only a few people care. The rest just want to have something to gossip about,” Esther Musila said.
She ended her message by comparing some people to storms that eventually pass. Esther encouraged people to remove such influences from their lives and make room for brighter days ahead.
“Some people come into your life like a dark storming night. When the storm is over, and the sun rises, it becomes a beautiful day. Make beautiful days in your life by removing the “storms” in your Life,” Esther Musila said.