Bolo Bespoke apologises to his wife, regrets missing moments when she needed him most
By Katemarthason Okudo, September 8, 2026Kenyan fashion designer Bolo Bespoke has apologised to his wife, Josphine Mueni, expressing regret over missing important moments when she needed him by his side. In a social media post on Monday, September 7, Bolo addressed his wife directly, acknowledging that his absence had affected their relationship.
The designer said he was sorry for not being present during some of the moments that mattered to his wife and promised to be there for her going forward.
“My love, it hurts knowing I missed so many precious moments with you when you needed me by my side. I’m truly sorry. Please forgive me. I promise to always be here for you. You are the most beautiful woman I’ve ever known, and in this life or the next, I will always choose you. Nakupenda sana, my love,” he wrote.
Bolo opens up about mid-life crisis
The apology comes after Bolo recently opened up about going through a difficult period in his life, describing it as a mid-life crisis. The fashion designer said he had been dealing with several challenges and admitted that the situation had not been easy for him.
He explained that the mid-life crisis was among the issues he was currently trying to deal with, while also navigating challenges in his personal life. His comments offered a glimpse into some of the struggles taking place away from his work and public life.
He wanted to return home
Bolo also spoke about his relationship with his wife and his desire to return home to be with her and their children.
At the time, he revealed that his wife had given him a condition before allowing him to return home, suggesting that their relationship was going through a difficult moment.
“She has said if I behave tonight, she may allow me on Monday morning. So on Monday morning I will be home, guys,” Bolo said.
He went on to explain that the previous two nights had been difficult as he dealt with the situation. According to Bolo, his wife had complained that he was hardly home, something he said he understood from her point of view.
Bolo describes himself as a family man
Despite the tension, Bolo made it clear that he wanted to be back with his family.
The designer described himself as a family man who values spending time with his wife and children. He also appealed to those following his story to help convince his wife to allow him to return home.
His latest apology appears to acknowledge the concerns his wife had raised, particularly about his absence during moments when she needed his support.
By publicly expressing regret and promising to be more present, Bolo has now turned his attention to rebuilding the connection with his family.
His message ended on a personal note, reaffirming his love for his wife and his commitment to choosing her, both now and in the future.