Bolo Bespoke’s wife Mueni reveals she would fight to ensure no lady takes her man
By Steve Ireri, March 13, 2026The wife of Kenyan fashion designer Bolo Bespoke, Mueni, has revealed that she would not hesitate to fight any woman trying to get close to her husband.
Speaking openly about marriage, fidelity, and the pressures women face in a video posted on her TikTok on Friday, March 13, 2026, Mueni lamented that some women in the city actively pursue married men.
“If I find my husband with other women, I will fight. Some people say they have class and can’t fight, but if your husband is being approached by other women and you refuse to defend him, you will end up a single mother. Some women in the city are out to take married men, and I will not let that happen,” she said.
She insisted that pride or the desire to appear classy should never prevent a woman from defending what is hers.
Otherwise, she warned, one could end up a single mother, carrying a heavy burden while others reap what they did not sow.
According to Mueni, marriage is a beautiful journey but comes with its fair share of challenges, especially after children enter the picture.
“Stress, disease, and even being abandoned can follow, leaving you a single mother. I will not allow that. I will protect my marriage and my family at all costs,” Mueni explained.
She explained that the spark and excitement that exist during courtship often fade once responsibilities pile up, leaving some men tempted to wander.
However, she made it clear that women should not sit idly by while their partners stray.
“Marriage is beautiful, but it comes with many challenges. When you get married and have children, the spark you once had fades a little. And if a man goes out to cheat after that spark diminishes, and you just sit there saying you are classy and cannot fight for him, that is where problems start,” she added.
Mueni also criticised the culture of pretending on social media, where couples present perfect relationships for validation while sweeping the struggles under the rug.
She said she prefers to be authentic and to show the world who she truly is rather than play to an audience or bow to other people’s opinions.
“I have always wanted to say this: too often people go on social media to fake things and seek validation, but that is not me. I will show the world who I am. If someone doesn’t like me or judges me, it does not concern me,” Mueni said.
She underscored that she would fight for her man, not just for her own sake but for the well-being of her children, refusing to allow stress or betrayal to affect her health or leave her children fatherless.
She compared this resolve to entering a marriage in good health and expecting to exit it the same way, no sickness, no despair, no regrets.
“I will fight to the death. I will not allow my children to grow up without their father, and I will not let stress ruin my health. I entered marriage in good health, and I will not leave it weakened or broken. We will leave marriage as we came into it,” she said.