Mwalimu Rachel suggests divorcing long-term couples should remain roommates
By Paulette Mboga, September 15, 2025Radio host Mwalimu Racheal has shared her thoughts on divorce, suggesting that couples who have been together for many years could consider living like roommates after separation.
This advice comes following news that Akon and his wife are divorcing after almost 30 years of marriage. Racheal said that after long-term relationships, living together as roommates allows both parties to maintain an understanding and move on with their lives.
“News broke over the weekend that Akon and his wife are divorcing, this is after almost 30 years of marriage. This is weeks before they celebrated their anniversary. Come through with an understanding, and everyone can then date whoever they want. Sasa mnaachana mnaenda wapi?” she asked on Instagram on Monday, September 15, 2025.
Advice for long-term relationships
According to Racheal, couples who have spent decades together may find it difficult to separate. She believes that by living together as roommates, they can manage practical matters, maintain communication, and prepare for the next stage of their lives without unnecessary conflict.
“I think after several years, live together as roommates. Come through with an understanding, everyone can then date whoever they want,” she added. Her advice is aimed at helping long-term couples navigate separation in a way that is respectful and structured, especially when children or shared responsibilities are involved.
Akon and Tomeka’s divorce
Senegalese-American singer, songwriter, and producer Akon and his wife, Tomeka Thiam, announced their decision to divorce after nearly three decades of marriage.
Though the couple’s marriage appeared strong from the outside, reports suggest that issues had been building behind the scenes. With 28 years of history, children, and shared life responsibilities, the divorce represents a major shift for the family.
Akon has not publicly commented on the filing so far.
Mwalimu Racheal’s perspective checks the emotional complexity of long-term relationships. Her suggestion for couples to live as roommates after separation provides a practical approach to easing tensions.