Gloria Ntazola explains why she still hangs out with her ex despite being single
By Paulette Mboga, August 11, 2025Social media personality Gloria Ntazola has openly shared why she continues to see her ex-partner even though they are no longer in a romantic relationship.
Posting this on Instagram on Monday, August 11, 2025, Ntazola said her decision is based on the comfort and reliability she still finds in her former partner compared to the men she has encountered since.
“I’m not in a relationship but still seeing my ex as friends because these other men talk too much and are so ghetto and rough. They can’t dress nicely and smell good, and they are too lazy to make money,” she said.
Ntazola praised her ex for always being there for her, saying he never denies her requests and ensures she gets what she needs, no matter how little it might be. “My ex never says no to me; I get everything I need, however little it is,” she added.
Her remarks sparked conversations online about the complexities of maintaining ties with an ex-partner and how personal standards can influence dating decisions.
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Gloria Ntazola’s stance comes weeks after singer and actress Sanaipei Tande revealed in an interview that she still communicates with her ex-boyfriend. Sanaipei explained that staying in touch with an ex doesn’t always mean there’s a romantic link, but rather that some past relationships can evolve into valuable friendships.
Ntazola’s comments, however, go a step further by suggesting that her current pool of dating options does not measure up to the standards set by her ex. She highlighted qualities such as personal grooming, work ethic, and generosity as non-negotiables when it comes to potential partners’ attributes, which she feels are often lacking in the men she has met.
Some netizens might agree with her perspective, pointing out that there is nothing wrong with keeping someone in your life who treats you well, while others might argue that staying close to an ex can hinder moving on and finding new love.
For Ntazola, the choice appears to be about comfort, familiarity, and maintaining a bond with someone who consistently meets her needs, even if the romance is no longer there.