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Teacher Tabby calls out online narratives normalising violence against women
14th May, 2026 11:36 AM
Kenyan TikTok personality Tabby Wothaya Gichohi, popularly known as Teacher Tabby, has raised widespread conversation after speaking out against men who justify violence against women under the guise of authority.
The educator addressed the issue in a video shared on her TikTok account on Wednesday, May 12, 2026, where she strongly condemned social media users who appeared to defend abusive behaviour in relationships.
Her remarks came after she came across a trending online phrase and went through the comment section, only to find responses she described as deeply disturbing. “I saw the trend, ‘Amacheps but not for Kips,’ and after going through that comment section and reading what some had written, I honestly understood why many women are alarmed,” she said.
Violence is not authority
In the video clip, Teacher Tabby questioned the thinking behind claims that a man who does not “discipline” his partner is weak. “Is it not diabolical to try and insinuate that men who don’t discipline, aka beat, their women are weak?” she questioned.
She went on to challenge the idea that masculinity should ever be associated with violence. “So, to some of you, a strong man is a man who beats women? If a man needs physical violence to assert authority, then he has no authority. He is simply forcing issues,” she stated.
Her comments gained a strong emotional response with many Kenyans online, with some comments applauding her for addressing what they described as a worrying culture of normalising abuse through humour and careless online banter.
Teacher Tabby did not hold back as she warned women against ignoring the early signs of physical aggression. “A man who has no issue beating you has no issue un-aliving you either. You are one strike away from danger,” she said.
Growing voice beyond teaching
Teacher Tabby has steadily built a name for herself online through educational content, social commentary, and relatable discussions touching on relationships, youth culture, and everyday societal issues. Over time, she has grown into one of Kenya’s known digital voices, using her platform not just for entertainment but also to speak on social concerns affecting young people.
Her latest message also ties into broader conversations around rising concerns over gender-based violence in Kenya, where activists have continued calling for stronger awareness and action.
Her message was simple but firm: violence should never be repackaged as discipline, authority or proof of strength. “As a society, we need to stop normalising nonsense,” she said.
