Njambi Fever reveals struggles of solo parenting during baby’s first months
By William Muthama, March 5, 2026Social media personality Njambi Fever has shared reflections on the challenges of raising a newborn largely on her own, offering insight into both the emotional and practical aspects of solo parenting.
In an Instagram post on Thursday, March 5, 2026, Njambi described the toll of managing her baby while others rested.
“Sleep deprivation is a must. It’s tiring, frustrating, and even worse when you’re doing it all alone,” she said. She reflected on nights when her partner rested elsewhere while she stayed up, attending to the baby’s needs.
She also admitted that the exhaustion can sometimes feel overwhelming, but she reminded herself that this phase will pass.
Establishing consistent routines
Njambi Fever emphasised the importance of consistent evening routines, including baths between 5 pm and 6 pm, to help signal to babies that it’s time to wind down for the night.
“Your baby doesn’t make themselves sleep. When it’s sleep time, it’s sleep time. Consistency is everything,” she said. Reducing noise, keeping lights low, and avoiding overstimulation were also part of her strategy to help her baby rest.
For working parents, Njambi advised maintaining clear communication with nannies while keeping decision-making authority. “Your nanny can support you, but ultimately, you decide what works for your baby,” she explained.
She noted that observing the baby’s cues, such as discomfort, hunger, or tiredness, ensures timely responses and reduces unnecessary stress.
Njambi encouraged mothers to trust their instincts, be patient, and maintain routines despite exhaustion. She reflected on how rewarding it is to see a baby thrive, even amid challenges.
She reminded moms that even small victories, like a baby finally settling or sleeping through part of the night, are worth celebrating.
“Even small victories, like your baby finally settling or sleeping through part of the night, are worth celebrating. Trust yourself, stay consistent, and remember you’re doing an amazing job,” Njambi Fever said.