Kanyari appeals for children’s privacy amid ongoing family tussle
By William Muthama, December 10, 2025Pastor Victor Kanyari has called on the public to respect the privacy of his children following the death of their mother, gospel artist Betty Bayo, and amid an ongoing family tussle.
Speaking through his Facebook account on Wednesday, December 10, 2025, Kanyari urged that all discussions and speculations concerning his children, Sky and Danny, be reframed with their well-being in mind.
Kanyari stressed that protecting his children’s mental and emotional health is his top priority. He noted that while the internet continues to judge and speculate about his personal life, the needs of his children must come first.
The pastor emphasised that no online debate, trending story, or rumour should overshadow their welfare.
Standing firm amid criticism
The pastor highlighted the challenges of navigating grief and parenting under the spotlight. He acknowledged the scrutiny and criticism he has faced online but emphasised that public opinion should not dictate the care and guidance he provides to his children.
“God’s opinion is greater than public opinion,” Kanyari stated, underscoring his focus on faith and responsibility rather than responding to social media chatter. He appealed to followers and the media to refrain from sensationalising his family matters, asking for grace and understanding during this difficult period.
Guiding through grief
Kanyari also reflected on his role as a father, stressing that the loss of the children’s mother requires patience, compassion, and guidance.
He thanked those who had supported him quietly and prayed for his family, acknowledging the importance of empathy during such a trying time.
He concluded by reiterating that his focus remains on raising Sky and Danny with dignity and love, shielding them from the distractions and pressures of public scrutiny.
The remarks follow a heated debate online between Betty Bayo’s widower, Hiram Gitau, popularly known as Tash, and the artist’s former partner, Pastor Victor Kanyari, over who should assume custody of the late singer’s children, with Betty Bayo’s mother, Joyce Wairimu, further stirring the conversation by openly voicing her support for Kanyari.