Ofweneke explains why some friends never get first priority for opportunities
By Katemarthason Okudo, July 17, 2026Media personality and comedian Dr Ofweneke has shared his thoughts on why some people are overlooked when opportunities arise, saying familiarity with friends can sometimes prevent people from recognising the value they bring.
Speaking in a video posted on his Instagram page on Thursday, July 16, 2026, Ofweneke encouraged people to appreciate the gifts, skills and influence of those within their circle instead of taking them for granted simply because they are friends.
‘You forget who your friends really are’
While reflecting during his drive to work, Ofweneke said many people assume that being close to someone automatically gives them priority whenever opportunities come up.
However, he argued that this mindset often works against them because they fail to recognise the unique qualities their friends possess.
“I’m here driving on my way to work and something just hit me deep. Someone asked the reason why you don’t get first priority when opportunities arise within your circle. It’s because some of you are so used to your friends within your circle that you’ve not learned to appreciate them beyond the circle,”Ofweneke said.
He explained that over time, familiarity can make people overlook the talents and influence of those closest to them.
“You’ve not learned to appreciate the gifts that they carry within your circle. Some of you are so used to your friends until you forget who they are,” he added.
Respect the source of opportunity
According to Ofweneke, opportunities often go to people who respect those creating them rather than those who feel entitled because of friendship.
He noted that friendships should never be mistaken for guaranteed access to opportunities.
“Opportunities will always come and will always honour those who honour the source of opportunity. Your friend is somebody very important beyond you just being friends,” he explained.
The comedian said having direct access to successful or influential people should not make anyone believe they have an automatic pass into every opportunity that comes their way.
Friendship does not mean equal status
Ofweneke further said many people fail to separate friendship from personal achievement, leading them to believe they are on the same level as their successful friends.
He urged people to respect the work, connections and abilities that others have built over time.
“Some of your friends are powerful, they’re connected, they have skills and everything, but because you’ve not learned the wisdom of seeing them beyond just being in your circle, now you think you’re on the same level,”he said.
His remarks have since sparked conversations on social media, with many users agreeing that genuine appreciation, humility and respect often play a bigger role in opening doors than simply being part of someone’s inner circle. Others said his message serves as a reminder that friendships should be valued beyond the opportunities they may present.