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Lilian Ng’ang’a: Stop punishing children over poor exam performance
20th July, 2026 06:04 AM
Former Machakos County First Lady and author Lilian Ng’ang’a has spoken out against the culture of punishing children over poor exam results, arguing that learning should never be turned into a source of shame.
In a statement shared on her Instagram page on Sunday, July 20, 2026, Lilian said many children are made to feel like they are failures simply because they do not score highly in exams, yet education should be about growth rather than fear.
‘Children should be allowed to learn without being punished for not ‘passing’ exams. It is humiliating and makes them feel like failures. Grading can be done later for placement purposes. Academic excellence is just one part of excellence,” Lilian Ng’ang’a stated.
This comes months after she suggested that children should not be taken to school before they can handle basic personal needs on their own, especially using the bathroom.
In a statement shared via her Instagram account on March 18, 2026, the former Machakos County First Lady stressed that parenting responsibilities should not be pushed onto teachers.
She pointed out that some children are enrolled in school too early, leaving teachers to take on roles that go beyond teaching. According to her, classrooms are turning into spaces where educators are forced to manage tasks that should have already been handled at home.
“Children should not start school before they can use the bathroom on their own. Teachers have no business potty training kids. Let’s parent. Let the teachers teach,” she said.
