Carrol Sonie reveals why she agreed to let Mulamwah see their daughter despite messy breakup
By Paulette Mboga, December 15, 2025Carol Sonnie has revealed why she agreed to let Mulamwah see their daughter, Keilah, despite their messy breakup.
Speaking on a YouTube show on Monday, December 15, 2025, she explained that her decision was motivated by their child’s well-being.
“After hapa najua nakuja kulimwa vita. Vita na wanawake…they don’t understand,” she said, adding, “Let me tell you something. For me to come to an agreement or even for me to allow you kukuja kuona mtoto wako, it is because, honestly speaking, Keilah is not part of our differences. I would rather put the differences aside so that Keilah has the best of everything.”
Sonnie admitted that co-parenting requires setting aside personal issues to prioritise their child. She highlighted that despite the challenges of their past relationship, the bond between Keilah and her father is important and should be nurtured.
“You have seen Keilah today, after a very long time. Kuna kitu…the bond ilikua. I was like, “Aii, kwani mnajuana?” she said, describing the moment they reconnected.
Importance of prioritising the child
Carol explained that seeing the father-daughter bond was emotional for her as a mother.
“The bond, the everything, also me as a mother, I was like…ohh…so this is what this girl has been missing a lot,” she said.
She acknowledged that letting Mulamwah spend time with Keilah requires sacrifice and responsibility on her part. According to her, the decision is about ensuring that Keilah experiences both parental figures and receives the best possible upbringing.
She stressed that personal differences between parents should not affect the child. For Sonnie, putting aside conflicts is part of responsible parenting.
“Keilah is not part of our differences,” she repeated, saying that the child’s needs come first. Her comments show the importance of co-parenting even after a difficult breakup.
Carol also reflected on the challenges of co-parenting and the balance required to maintain healthy relationships for the sake of their child. She noted that moments of seeing Keilah with her father reminded her how crucial these sacrifices are.
While past differences with Mulamwah exist, her focus remains on providing Keilah with love, stability, and the opportunity to have a strong relationship with both parents.