Why every man needs a hobby that has nothing to do with money
June is Men’s Mental Health Awareness Month.
A 2022 report by the Kenya National Bureau of Statistics found that 56.9% of men, compared to 43.1% of women in Kenya, have experienced mental disorders. Yet most of those men never see a therapist, never talk about it, and keep pushing.
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There is a quieter problem underneath those numbers. A lot of men have built an identity almost entirely out of what they produce. Work. Hustle. Providing.
Everything is a side hustle, a network, an investment. Over time, it becomes a trap.
When your entire sense of self is tied to performance, anything that threatens that performance, a job loss, a slow month, or a failed business, does not just hurt your pocket. It hollows you out.
The science behind doing something just because you enjoy it
Hobbies involve structured practice that progressively builds mastery and skill over time, and they contribute to an individual’s identity and social connections in ways that work alone cannot replicate.
That’s the part most men miss. A hobby is not wasted time. It is where you build a version of yourself that no redundancy letter or bad economy can take from you.
A 2025 review published in the Journal of Psychiatric and Mental Health Nursing found that “engaging in hobbies reduces the odds of experiencing depression by 22% and poor mental well-being by 38%, even after adjusting for work-related stress and other lifestyle factors.”
Those are meaningful numbers.
When you do something purely because you want to, with no client, no deadline, no monetisation angle, your brain recovers differently. Stress hormones drop.
You experience what psychologists call mastery, the quiet satisfaction of getting better at something for its own sake. That feeling is protective.
What this looks like in practice
It doesn’t need to be elaborate. Photography. Cooking something new on a Sunday. Chess. Running without tracking your pace. Growing something on your balcony. The point is not the hobby itself. The point is that it belongs to you and only you.
The man who only exists inside his output, his title, his hustle, his family role, is one hard season away from having nothing to stand on. A hobby gives you somewhere else to stand.
Start one this month.
