Oga Obinna tells men denied access to their kids to stop sending unnecessary support
By Paulette Mboga, March 14, 2026Media personality Oga Obinna has told men who are being denied access to their children to stop paying child support unnecessarily, saying many fathers continue to make payments even when court directives are ignored.
According to him, some mothers do not follow court instructions, especially if things are not done their way, and he advised fathers to return to court if access is denied.
“Did I stutter?? MEN, IF YOU ARE BEING DENIED ACCESS TO YOUR CHILD, STOP SENDING UNNECESSARY SUPPORT,” he said on Instagram on Saturday, March 14, 2026.
Obinna explained that courts often give clear instructions, but problems arise when the directives are not followed.
“Courts give directives that sometimes aren’t followed by the mothers to our children, especially if you don’t do what they want, how and when they want. Wacha kulipa murudi kortini aambiwe tena, na akikataa tena you repeat,” he added.
He earlier admitted that ego and bitterness once affected his own co-parenting journey. Speaking in a YouTube video on Tuesday, March 10, 2026, he said the early stages of co-parenting were challenging as both sides struggled with pride and conflict.
“So there is this thing that I learnt from co-parenting. Initially, nilikua, the part that you have said about bitterness,” he said, reflecting on how personal emotions influenced the situation.
Ego and bitterness affected early co-parenting
Obinna said that both sides were trying to prove who was right, which only made matters worse.
“There was a lot of ego at play. From the other side, from my side,” he explained.
He admitted that the ongoing fights did not help anyone and forced him to rethink how he was handling co-parenting.
He noted that early conflicts made communication difficult and created unnecessary tension. Obinna encouraged fathers to protect their rights and ensure court directives are followed instead of continuing payments when access is blocked.
Obinna concluded that reflecting on personal mistakes and managing emotions are crucial for co-parenting successfully. By sharing his experience, he hopes to help fathers navigate challenges, avoid unnecessary payments, and focus on what is best for their children.