Njambi Fever talks about moving on after divorce, says life is too short
By Paulette Mboga, March 27, 2026Blogger Njambi Fever has spoken out about healing after divorce, saying that life is too short to stay stuck in the past.
On Instagram on Friday, March 27, 2026, she explained that people should allow themselves to move on after heartbreak and embrace new beginnings. Her message came as she reacted to an engagement post involving actress Brenda Michelle.
She said that divorce and breakups should not be seen only as failure, but also as moments that can lead to growth. She added that people often spend too much time grieving what could have been instead of focusing on what can still be. She encouraged emotional healing and self-acceptance.
“Falling in love again & again,” Njambi Fever said.
She went on to explain that she supports healing and moving forward in life after difficult relationships. She said that people only have one life and should not waste it holding on to pain. She added that choosing oneself is an important step in recovery.
Healing after heartbreak
Njambi Fever explained that divorce is a loss, but it is also a turning point in life. She said that people should not remain stuck in sadness forever because it affects their ability to grow. She added that moving on is part of emotional strength.
She said that every person has permission to begin again, no matter what they have gone through. She explained that healing takes time, but it is necessary for personal peace. She added that choosing yourself is sometimes the most important decision.
“You can’t spend forever grieving “what could’ve been”… Divorce is a loss, hatukatai, but it’s also a turning point… You have permission to begin again. At some point, you have to choose yourself,” Njambi Fever said.
She made these remarks while responding to a message congratulating actress Brenda Michelle on her engagement. She said she appreciated the positivity in the message and the idea of sharing healing journeys. She added that such stories can encourage others going through similar experiences.
Brenda Michelle has previously spoken about a failed relationship.