Njambi Fever says posting your man could prevent dating scandals
By Paulette Mboga, April 12, 2026Blogger Njambi Fever has advised women to consider posting the men they are dating, saying it could help prevent hidden relationships and scandals.
She shared her thoughts on Sunday, April 12, 2026, while reacting to a trending story about a woman who discovered her boyfriend was married with five children.
She explained that many women end up in such situations without knowing, especially when partners hide important details about their lives. She said the issue keeps repeating because people do not openly show who they are dating.
“Normalise posting the men you’re dating. We keep saying!!” Njambi Fever said.
She added that even sharing within a small circle can make a difference, noting that secrecy often creates room for deception. She explained that keeping relationships private sometimes protects the wrong person.
“Hata kwa close friends tu basi,” she added.
The blogger said the viral case shows how easily someone can live a double life for a long time. She explained that the woman involved had been in the relationship for a year without knowing the truth.
Advice comes amid viral relationship scandal
She said the situation has entertained many people but also raised serious concerns about trust in relationships. She explained that such cases are not rare and many people can relate to the shock of hidden truths.
“This entertained me all day, Jana. This babe has been dating a married man, bila kujua,” she said.
Njambi Fever went on to express frustration at men who mislead their partners, saying such behaviour continues to damage trust. She explained that being honest from the start would prevent many of these issues.
“Aki ya Ngai Luo men nyinyi, you’re never beating the allegations!” she added.
She noted that while the story may seem dramatic, it highlights the need for more openness in relationships. She said women should not feel shy about acknowledging their partners publicly.
According to Njambi, simple actions like sharing photos or mentioning a partner could expose hidden truths early. She said it is better to find out sooner rather than later when emotions are already involved.