Njambi Fever explains why she does not hold on to pain for too long
By Paulette Mboga, May 12, 2026Blogger Njambi Fever has opened up about how she now deals with pain and betrayal, saying she no longer allows heartbreak to control her life for long periods.
The blogger explained that she has changed with time and no longer reacts the same way she used to in the past.
“Nowadays, when I’m hurt. I don’t sit in the pain forever like I used to,” Njambi Fever said.
She explained that there was a time when betrayal from people close to her would affect her deeply for days. According to her, she would spend a lot of time crying and thinking about the situation, whether the pain came from friends, family members or relationships.
“Kitambo aki ningekaa nalia a full week ooh I’ve been hurt, I’ve been betrayed… be it a friend or family member or a boyfriend.. but sio worth it aki,” she explained.
Njambi Fever said she has now learned how to accept pain and continue with life instead of staying stuck in disappointment. She noted that people change, leave or fail others every day, and life still moves on regardless of the situation.
Moving on from pain
“I feel the hurt, then keep moving,” Njambi Fever said.
She explained that her decision to move forward quickly does not mean she does not care about people or situations that hurt her. According to her, it is simply a way of protecting her peace and focusing on life instead of remaining in emotional pain for too long.
“Not because I don’t care, but life keeps going regardless of who disappointed you, who left, who changed… who failed you…” she said.
Njambi Fever also shared her thoughts about closure, saying she no longer believes it is always necessary after painful situations. She explained that expectations often lead to heartbreak and disappointment.
“Hata closure sio must. Expectations break your heart for nothing,” she said.
The media personality also admitted that she expects her words to be misunderstood by some people. However, she explained that she is already used to people interpreting her statements differently from what she means.
“This will be misquoted, but nimezoea. You see me, emotional depth comes much later,” Njambi Fever explained.
She added that intimacy does not carry emotional weight for her in the same way it does for other people.