‘Men are polygamous by nature’– Miss P opens up on accepting co-wives
By William Muthama, April 9, 2026Musician Miss P has opened up about her views on relationships, sharing her thoughts on honesty, polygamy, and managing co-wives in modern partnerships.
In an interview on Thursday, April 9, 2026, she revealed that she accepts men’s polygamous tendencies and doesn’t mind the presence of co-wives, as long as honesty and transparency are maintained.
Miss P explained that for her, honesty is non-negotiable. She believes it’s better for a man to be upfront about pursuing another woman than to hide it or cheat.
This openness, she says, allows couples to set boundaries and navigate the complexities of polygamous dynamics without resentment.
She noted that while jealousy is natural, it should not control the relationship. A woman cannot force a man to choose her over someone else if his heart is drawn elsewhere. Instead, clear communication and mutual respect are key to maintaining healthy relationships.
“Me, I don’t mind having co-wives, so we will divide that number. If I’m with a man, and he comes and shows an interest in pursuing a romantic relationship with another woman, but still wants to keep me, I’m okay with that,” Miss P said.
Polygamy and modern love
The musician challenged conventional norms around monogamy in Kenya, highlighting a pragmatic approach to love.
Accepting co-wives, she explained, does not mean compromising one’s worth or tolerating disrespect. Rather, it’s about understanding men’s tendencies while maintaining personal boundaries and self-respect.
Miss P emphasised that every relationship is unique, and women should decide for themselves if sharing a partner works for them.
“You cannot make a man choose you if he wants to choose someone else. That’s not a decision I can make for him,” she said. She believes that transparency from both sides helps manage expectations and fosters trust, even in complex relationship structures.
“I usually tell my friends that I can fight 99 women who want him, but I cannot fight the one woman he wants,” Miss P added, highlighting her perspective on personal boundaries and reality in relationships.
While open to co-wives, Miss P stressed that the duration and conditions of any relationship remain crucial. She believes in giving space for honest choices, but also in protecting one’s emotional well-being.
“The problem is, how long will they keep me? That’s the thing now,” she noted, underlining the practical limits of her approach.