Kitt Kiarie criticises men for judging women over body count
By Paulette Mboga, April 3, 2026Content creator Kitt Kiarie has criticised men for judging women based on their past relationships, saying the body count debate is unfair and harmful.
On Friday, April 3, 2026, she said the conversation reflects how some men feel entitled to women’s bodies and choices. She explained that such attitudes continue to affect how women are viewed in society.
She said women are often blamed for actions that happened before certain men came into their lives. She explained that this kind of judgment creates pressure and shame that should not exist. She added that people need to rethink how they treat women’s personal history.
“One day we MUST talk about how men are so entitled to women’s bodies, that they fault them for things they did BEFORE they were in the picture,” Kitt Kiarie said.
She explained that the issue goes beyond personal opinions and reflects a wider problem. She said many women face criticism over their past, while men are not held to the same standard. She added that this double standard continues to grow through such discussions.
“Body count is the most misogynistic thing in life! Ever!” Kitt Kiarie said.
Double standards?
Kitt said the body count debate places unfair focus on women and ignores the role of men. She explained that the conversation often shifts blame to women without questioning the same behaviour in men. She added that this creates an imbalance in how people are judged.
According to her, men should reflect on how they approach conversations about women’s past. She explained that judging someone for what they did before a relationship is not fair. She added that respect should not depend on someone’s history.
Kitt said there is a need to address the issue openly and honestly. She explained that change can only happen when people accept that the problem exists. She added that calling out such behaviour is a step toward fairness.
She said women deserve to be treated with respect without being judged for their past. She explained that focusing on body count takes away from more important values. She added that people should focus on character instead of history.