Frank Doso questions why men are always blamed in relationships
By Paulette Mboga, September 18, 2025Frank Doso has raised questions about gender roles in relationships, asking why men are often the ones blamed whenever issues arise.
In an Instagram post on Thursday, September 18, 2025, he expressed his frustration with the constant narrative that men are always at fault, stressing that relationships should be viewed with balance and fairness.
According to Doso, the tendency to point fingers at men whenever disagreements or misunderstandings occur has become a common and unfair pattern. Most of the time, many have argued that such perceptions not only put men under unnecessary pressure but also prevent constructive conversations about real issues in relationships.
“Why is it always men to blame?” he asked, highlighting that sometimes challenges between couples are complex and cannot be pinned on one side only. Doso answered after a fan said he should ask forgiveness from Lydia after rumours that the two had broken up.
“Ulifanya nini tena, man? The way you guys aki. Omba msamaha bana, tunataka kuwaona mkidance, usifumble, bro,” a fan asked.
Doso pointed out that relationships require effort and accountability from both parties and insisted that men should not be portrayed as the sole cause of problems.
His remarks come at a time when conversations about dating, accountability, and expectations continue to dominate Kenyan social spaces.
Clears air on relationship status
Alongside his views on relationship dynamics, Doso also addressed speculation surrounding his personal life. Rumours had circulated suggesting that he was single, but he firmly dismissed them, clarifying that he is not single as many had assumed.
He stated that despite what people might believe, he is currently in a relationship and urged the public not to be misled by false narratives.
The Q&A session, where he invited people to ask him personal and career-related questions, provided a chance for Doso to open up about his thoughts and experiences.
While he did not go into full detail about his private life, his statement on his relationship status served to clear ongoing speculation and set the record straight.
Frank Doso’s comments add to the wider conversation around fairness in relationships and how men and women view each other’s roles.