Why being there for someone can matter more than having the right words
By Trizer Lijondo, September 10, 2026Sometimes, supporting someone through a difficult period does not require having the perfect advice or knowing exactly what to say. It can begin with something much simpler, like being present, listening and letting them know they do not have to face a difficult moment alone.
As the world marks World Suicide Prevention Day on September 10, the focus in 2026 remains on ‘Changing the Narrative on Suicide’, with a call to ‘Start the Conversation’. The World Health Organization (WHO) says the campaign encourages open, compassionate conversations that reduce stigma and create environments where people can speak up and seek help.
Listening can be more important than giving advice
When someone is struggling, it can be tempting to immediately offer solutions or remind them that things will eventually get better. However, simply giving someone room to talk without judging or dismissing their feelings can be an important form of support.
The International Association for Suicide Prevention (IASP) encourages people to check in with friends, family members, colleagues and others who may be struggling. It says offering support, showing empathy and validating someone’s feelings can help reduce distress.
This can mean asking how someone is genuinely doing, listening to their response and resisting the urge to turn the conversation into a lecture.
Small acts of presence can make a difference
Support does not always have to come through a serious conversation. Calling a friend, visiting them, inviting them for a walk, sharing a meal or simply sitting with them can remind someone that they are not alone.
The important part is consistency. Someone who initially says they are fine may not be ready to open up immediately. Checking in again later can show that the concern was genuine rather than just a passing question.
At the same time, friends and relatives do not have to carry the responsibility alone. When someone appears to be in serious distress, encouraging them to seek professional mental-health support can be an important next step.
Starting the conversation without fear
World Suicide Prevention Day is also a reminder that difficult conversations do not need perfect wording. According to WHO, changing the narrative means moving away from silence and misunderstanding towards openness, empathy and support.
Being there for someone may not mean knowing exactly how to fix their situation. Sometimes, it means listening without judgement, staying connected and helping them find the support they need.
In a world where many people are quick to say they are “fine”, taking the time to ask again and genuinely listening can be a meaningful act of care.