How to get rid of unwanted Christmas presents – without being found out
By Cynthia Lodite, December 26, 2025We’ve all been there, receiving a Christmas gift that’s just not your style, doesn’t fit, or you simply have no use for. While the thought counts, the item doesn’t have to gather dust.
The trick is letting it go without hurting feelings or causing awkward moments. From discreet regifting to clever donation strategies, here’s how to get rid of unwanted Christmas presents without anyone finding out.
Donate
If regifting doesn’t feel right, there are plenty of other ways to pass on the joy.
Donating to charity is an obvious option—and one that can make a real difference. Charity shops eagerly await the post-Christmas clear-out, when unwanted gifts become someone else’s treasure.
Many shelters, children’s homes, or community drives welcome new or gently used items. That novelty mug or unused toy could brighten someone else’s day, and no one needs to know it came from your reject pile.
And it’s not about just donating—shopping in charity shops over Christmas can make a difference too.
If you’re worried a relative might stumble across the item they’d bought you while they bargain hunt, you can always donate to a charity shop outside of your local area.
Hide the evidence.
Start by taking off gift tags, stickers, or personalized notes. If it came in branded wrapping paper or a gift bag, dispose of those separately, far from prying eyes.
If the packaging is distinct or recognizable, re-box the item or repackage it before reselling or donating. A generic box or bag works best.
Master the art of regifting
Regifting isn’t a crime if done carefully. Choose unused gifts, in perfect condition, and not personalized. Keep track of who gave it to you to avoid giving it back to the same circle. It’s best for neutral items like journals, wine, or home décor.
Swap with friends.
Host a low-key post-holiday gift swap with friends or colleagues. Chances are, they’ve also got things they don’t need. Everyone walks away with something better, and no feelings get hurt.
So that you know, always thank the giver. Appreciation goes a long way, even if the gift isn’t your favorite. After all, it’s the thought that counts, but what you do with it is totally up to you.