Ringtone Apoko: I do not know why ladies are avoiding me lately
By Steve Ireri, April 24, 2026Gospel singer Ringtone Apoko has opened up about his struggles in finding a partner, revealing that his efforts to pursue relationships have repeatedly been unsuccessful.
Speaking in an interview with SPM Buzz on Thursday, April 24, 2026, the singer admitted that despite making deliberate attempts to approach women, express interest, and even court them, he has consistently been met with rejection. He noted that the pattern has left him confused, as he cannot clearly understand why many women seem uninterested in him.
“To be honest, I do not know why ladies do not want anything to do with me. I have made all efforts to speak to women, flirt with them and woo them, but I have seen clearly that they do not want anything to do with me,” Apoko lamented.
Ringtone further revealed that he has gone as far as directly reaching out to women with intentions of marriage, but claims that most of them have not been willing to take that step with him. He described the situation as frustrating, saying his desire to settle down has not been matched by those he approaches.
According to the singer, part of the challenge lies in compatibility, as he is very specific about the qualities he is looking for in a partner. He stated that he prefers a God-fearing woman who is ready to commit to a family-orientated life.
“And now because they don’t want me, I have vowed to also show them that God is with me. I am frustrated because I am calling many, asking them to come and marry me, but they are not willing,” he shared.
He added that he envisions a large family and is seeking a partner who would be open to having more than seven children, something he suggested has also made it difficult for him to find a willing match.
Ringtone also pointed out that he has encountered women he feels are overly materialistic, which he believes further complicates his search for a genuine connection.
“The problem is that some lack the qualities I need, which include being God-fearing,” he said.
Despite the challenges, the singer maintained that he remains hopeful, adding that he intends to stay focused on his values and trust that things will eventually work out in his favour.
“And I am also seeking a woman who is ready to sire over seven kids and start a marriage journey. But some of them are also very materialistic,” he added.