Ntazola Gloria: You need money, not boyfriend
By Ascah Mwango, May 8, 2026Internet sensation Gloria Ntazola has shared advice with her female followers, telling them that financial independence should come first in their lives.
In a post shared through her Instagram stories, Gloria stated that women do not need to focus on getting into relationships, but instead should prioritise building their own financial stability.
“You need money, not a boyfriend,” she wrote.
Soft girls
This comes days after she encouraged women to stop being soft, saying the world does not treat them kindly.
In a post shared on her Instagram stories on Monday, May 4, 2026, Ntazola advised her female followers to develop a tougher mindset, warning that being gentle and too trusting can easily work against them. She urged them to change their attitude, saying, “Go be a bad bi*. The world is cruel to soft girls,” she said.
This was shortly after another post where she spoke about how men should be treated depending on their contribution in a relationship.
In a post shared on her Instagram stories on Friday, April 24, 2026, Ntazola said men who are not generous should not expect special treatment when it comes to food. She argued that women should respond based on how their partners provide. According to her, stingy men can be served simple meals such as porridge and dry beans, while those who provide deserve better treatment.
“Stingy men don’t deserve to eat good food. Make him porridge and dry beans. Only providers deserve good food !!” Ntazola stated.
This is not the first time she has shared such views. She has repeatedly advised women to be mindful of who they cook for in a relationship.
On February 18, 2026, she said women should only prepare meals for men who take care of them and treat them well. For those who do not, she suggested serving black tea and KDF, a dense type of mandazi that is filling. “Please, you only cook for a man who provides and treats you like a princess, a man who doesn’t provide, kindly feed him on kdf and black tea,” Ntazola stated.
She has also opened up about her personal life, saying she has never been in love. She made the statement on February 17, 2026, while responding to rumours on Instagram stories.
“Any other clown running around telling my business, ignore that I’ve never been in love with a human being, not in this current life,” Ntazola stated.
Earlier in the year, she also spoke about relationships and emotional attachment. On January 14, 2026, she said it is not right for a grown woman to cry over a man who has not shown real effort in the relationship.
“A whole grown woman crying over a man who has never bought her a bracelet. So embarrassing?” Ntazola questioned.
She further added that some men do not even manage to do small gestures of care. “That little man can’t even buy you a bicycle,” she said.