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Mosiria faults Women who party for why men choose to stay single
16th December, 2025 10:17 AM
The Head of Customer Care Department in Nairobi County, Geoffrey Mosiria, has blamed women’s party lifestyle for why many men remain single.
In a statement shared on his Instagram page on Tuesday, December 16, 2025, Mosiria said that some women have turned seeking attention into a full-time activity.
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According to him, weekends are spent attending concerts, hitting clubs, and posting videos online, all in pursuit of likes and social validation.
He warned that this lifestyle often leads to women ignoring men who are serious about their future. Mosiria pointed out that when hardworking men, who are quietly hustling and building their careers, approach them, they are often labelled as broke or boring.
“WHY THE BOYCHILD IS STILL SINGLE This is why the boychild is still single and will remain so for a while. Some girls have turned attention-seeking into a full-time career. Every weekend is a concert, every club is a runway, and every table must be climbed for visibility. Likes must be secured. Videos must be posted. Validation must be received. Then suddenly… BOOM 💥 You’re 35. Now it’s: “I’m ready for marriage.” “Any serious man, please.” “Where are the good men?” When the serious boychild wanted you, you called him broke, dry, stingy, boring, too serious, no vibe, no lifestyle. Meanwhile, he was busy hustling, dreaming, building quietly,” Mosiria stated.
Meanwhile, he said these women seek the excitement of men who provide temporary fun, champagne, and promises, but who are not interested in long-term commitment.
Mosiria emphasised that attention from club culture has a short shelf life. He noted that men who live fast lifestyles eventually face health challenges and diminishing energy, while marriage requires patience, teamwork, and vision rather than social media popularity or nightlife.
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He advised women to rethink their expectations, suggesting they avoid confusing attention with commitment.
He encouraged them to consider marrying men who are still struggling to find their footing, highlighting that those same men could become successful in the future.
According to Mosiria, today’s boring or broke men might one day become CEOs, governors, or homeowners.
“Stop insulting the boychild who is still finding his footing. If you must marry, marry that boychild who is also struggling to make it. Grow together. Suffer together. Build together. One day, you’ll celebrate the fruits of early marriage with the same boychild you once called broke now proudly calling him my husband. Where is the boychild who our mbeb is 35 years old? Today’s “boring broke boychild” might be tomorrow’s CEO, governor, or homeowner,” he said.
The official stressed the importance of growing, building, and facing challenges together in a marriage, rather than prioritising fleeting social attention.
