Njambi Fever claims Arrow Bwoy was intimidated by Nadia Mukami’s success
By Katemarthason Okudo, July 21, 2026Content creator Njambi Fever has weighed in on the breakup between musicians Nadia Mukami and Arrow Bwoy, claiming that the singer’s growing success may have affected their relationship.
In a series of Instagram Stories shared on Tuesday, July 21, 2026, Njambi reflected on why some relationships struggle when women become more successful. While she did not claim to know what happened between the two musicians, she shared her opinion on the challenges many women face while trying to balance love, family and personal growth.
Says many women prioritise family over themselves
Njambi said she believes Nadia genuinely wanted to build a family, adding that this is a dream shared by many women.
“I honestly think Arrow Boy saw the star that Nadia carries. Some men are intimidated by a woman’s success. Nadia has a bright future, but like many of us women, myself included, she genuinely wanted a family,” she wrote.
She added that the desire to keep a family together sometimes leads women to tolerate situations that cost them their peace. “Women dream of a peaceful home, children growing up with both parents and a love that lasts. That dream is so precious that many of us end up excusing disrespect, carrying emotional burdens that were never ours and forgiving what keeps breaking us,” she stated.
Njambi encouraged women to protect their peace, saying the desire for a family should never come at the expense of their dignity. “Wanting a family is a beautiful desire, but it should never cost you your peace and your dignity,” she wrote.
Relationship should not be a competition
Sharing her views on relationships, Njambi said a confident partner should celebrate rather than compete with the success of the other.
“A secure man understands that a relationship or marriage isn’t a competition. He knows her success doesn’t take anything away from his own,” she said.
She also claimed that some women experience challenges in relationships after becoming financially successful, urging them to remain aware of their personal goals while building a family.
Encourages women to choose themselves
Towards the end of her message, Njambi urged women not to lose themselves while trying to hold on to relationships.
“It is okay if she still loves the man who hurt her. He is the father of her children, and many women think that way. But nothing keeps a man who does not want to stay. Not good food, not intimacy, not having children together. A man stays because he wants to,” she wrote.
She concluded by encouraging women to support one another and put their well-being first. “Let’s love ourselves as women. Let’s choose our sanity. Let’s stick with each other. Let’s have communities. Let’s have friendships,” she added.
Remarks follow Arrow Bwoy’s recent revelation
Njambi’s comments come shortly after Arrow Bwoy, while speaking on a podcast, revealed that Nadia Mukami was once his side chick and claimed that his song Side Chick was dedicated to her. The remarks reignited online discussions about the former couple’s relationship, with fans continuing to share different opinions on their breakup.